Crystallin’s Meaningful Conversation Starters

I recommend spending some time with this list ahead of time and picking out your top three favorites to bring to your conversation or date (see the very bottom for extra, date-specific MCS’s!)

• One of the ways I’ve changed the most is:

• One of the most important life lessons I’ve learned so far is:

• If I had a clone who could go do Life Plan B, here’s what they would be doing:

• One of the most profound experiences I’ve ever had was when:

• One of the most impactful teachers/mentors in my life so far has been:

• Describe your 7 year old self:

• One of the most significant challenges I overcame was:

• The highlight of my year so far was:

• One of the best friends I ever had was [their name]. Our relationship was so amazing because:

• One of the most surprising and unexpected plot twists in my life was when:

• One major way I’m different from my family is:

• One of my most cherished memories is:

• Something significant that I’m really looking forward to is:

• Something I wish I had more of in my life is:

• Something that used to be part of my life, that I miss is:

• I wish I was better at:

• One of the hardest things I’ve ever done was:

• Something I’m most proud of in my life so far is:

Date-Specific MCS’s

• One way I like to create play and adventure in romantic relationships is:

• What I most appreciated in an important past relationship was:

• What I most admire about [a couple that I either know personally or know of] is:

• The way I most like to give love, affection, and support is to:

• The way I most like to receive love, affection, and support is by:

• Something I’m really good at in intimacy is:

• Something I’m still working to improve in intimacy is:

• One of the biggest lessons in romance and intimacy I’ve had to learn so far is: