Dating

A Love Letter to the Anxiously Attached

A Love Letter to the Anxiously Attached

The thing is, as an anxious attacher, you are already wired up to have stronger feelings - faster, and to bond deeper - sooner. And what that means is that the need for closeness, continuity, and security will almost surely start to come online faster for you than it will for them.

To be very clear: there is nothing wrong with that need. I’m only drawing your attention to when and how it shows up in the relationship. Because if if it’s only been a short while, it may just be too soon to ask them to be responsible to your nervous system in that way.

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